Fall in LOVE with parenting again!
You’ve come the right place if:
- You’re exhausted from feeling isolated, overwhelmed, and ashamed that you can’t seem to figure out how to parent your child. But you’re committed to understanding your child and what they truly need.
- You need practical, research-backed information that fits your busy life—a framework that’s rooted in child development, focuses on connection and relationship from someone who has been through it and knows that shame spiral of not parenting the way you promised yourself you would.
- You long for connection with other parents who understand the struggles and know how powerful those relationships can be in raising a resilient child and falling in love with parenting again.
- You’re not just looking for advice—you want guidance from someone who’s been in the trenches. Someone who can simplify things, cheer you on, and help you rediscover the joy of parenting.
- You are ready. Ready to connect. Ready to bring calm and joy back to your home. Ready to reduce the power struggles, and to truly parent your child’s unique needs. You’re ready to feel more confident and connected with your child.
No matter what is going on in your home right now, there is hope.
- Tantrums & Emotional Outbursts: Understanding and managing your child's big emotions can be overwhelming. Discover how understanding your child's brain development can help you manage and soothe tantrums effectively.
- Defiance & Boundaries: Learn why children test limits and how to set boundaries that actually work, with empathy and consistency.
- Behavioral Challenges: Explore how brain development influences behavior and find positive, respectful ways to address issues like aggression and noncompliance.
- Stress & Parental Burnout: The impact of stress on both parents and children is finally being recognized. Discover self-regulation strategies to maintain your peace and patience, and help your children do the same.
The support, insights, and resources you've been searching for are available to you.
Your village is waiting...
Connection
Create a relationship with your children based on trust, connection and collaboration
Healing
Heal the wounds experienced in childhood, so your children won’t have to.
Relationship
Experience peace, harmony and mutual understanding with your children
It’s Never Too Late to
Turn Things Around
No matter what your relationship with your child looks like right now, there is hope.
I discovered Peaceful Parenting after hitting my own “parenting rock bottom”—feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, and stuck in a cycle of yelling. My kids were mirroring the behavior I was unknowingly modeling.
Every night I’d feel guilty and broken, knowing I wanted to parent differently, but how? Simply vowing to "not do what they did" wasn’t enough.
I didn’t know how to manage the daily struggles or handle all the emotions. I felt so alone, desperately searching for that “village” everyone talks about.
When I finally found parent coaching, everything shifted. I learned that deep connection with my children was possible, but it took inner work and self-reflection and ongoing support and guidance from my parent coaching mentors.
And while perfection still eludes me, I am able to be present, parent with curiosity, and to see conflicts as chances to connect, learn, and grow.
I now have the skills, knowledge and resources to guide my family life in ways I never imagined.
Now I pause, pivot, then parent. I want this for every parent.
"Stefanie’s guidance and ability to truly HEAR me and see the blind spots in my parenting has made a significant impact. Her ability to empathetically address our situations as multi-faceted has opened my eyes to my family’s needs and a connected relationship with my children. THANK YOU, STEF! "
-Shellie W.
"Stefanie listens with intention and noticeably cares about the conversation. She has an incredible knack at helping me understand, appreciate, and empathize with other perspectives including my husband’s! You’ll be grateful to have her as part of your village. I highly recommend reaching out if you have family struggles."
-Anne S.
Hi! I’m Stefanie Ann
I’m a mother of four strong-willed, energetic children, and I’m here to transform families like yours. I believe every parent and child deserves more than just surviving the day-to-day—they deserve joy, deep connection, and fulfillment. Parenting is about more than just raising kids; it’s about nurturing hearts, fostering growth, and shaping resilient, emotionally intelligent individuals.
My mission is clear: to create a global ripple effect of love and compassion, starting with your family. When parents are empowered with the right tools and support, everything changes. Families thrive, communities grow stronger, and together, we can reshape the future for our children.
What sets me apart? I don’t offer quick fixes or cookie-cutter solutions. I work alongside you, diving deep into your struggles and walking with you every step of the way. I validate your emotions, hold space for your challenges, and offer guidance without judgment—because real transformation happens from the inside out.
If you’re ready to break free from generational patterns and build a family rooted in connection, respect, and understanding, I’m here for you. Together, we’ll uncover insights, release old habits, and discover a new path forward—one that leads to the thriving, connected family you've been longing for.
The traditional
‘power-over’ model
of parenting
isn’t working.
While authoritarian, or "power-over" parenting might achieve short-term obedience through fear or intimidation, it doesn’t foster genuine respect or lasting connection. This outdated approach focuses on control and punishment, missing countless opportunities for deep emotional bonding and meaningful parent-child relationships.
In contrast, the "power-with" approach—rooted in mutual respect, empathy, and collaboration—promotes healthy development and lasting positive change. By prioritizing communication and understanding, this style creates a nurturing environment where children thrive emotionally, socially, and academically.
There’s no one-size-fits-all in parenting, but with Pivotal Parenting Resources, I help you design a custom roadmap to connection based on your family’s unique values and needs. I offer parents the space to reconnect with themselves, rediscover their inner wisdom, and trust their instincts. The answers you’re looking for are already within—you just need guidance to unlock them.
Parenting is a marathon, not a sprint. With love, dedication, and a willingness to grow, you can create a nurturing environment where your children flourish and your family thrives.
You don’t have to walk this path alone. Whether you need guidance, support, or a compassionate ear, I’m here to help.
How It Works:
When you book a call with me, we will simply have a conversation so I can get a sense of what’s going on for you and your family and where I can offer support.
I’ll explain my approach and the options we have for working together. You can ask any questions you have and see what type of support would be the best fit for your life and schedule.
If it feels right to you, we can book our first session and get started. If it’s not a good fit, I will do my best to offer alternative resources or suggestions for support, wherever possible. There’s no pressure of any kind, simply an opportunity to see if we are a good fit to work together.
"As a mom, I thought I was doing great. However, with my strong-willed youngest child, I easily got overwhelmed frequently. I did the 12 week Transformational Reparenting Program with Stefanie. It has been eye opening and life changing! There are different strategies to discover for you and your child!"
-Jennifer L.
"Stefanie Ann is a parenting expert certified as such by practical experience. Her approach to parenting is that of a child advocate while at the same time appreciating and celebrating the basic humanity of the parenting journey. Stefanie will empower you to embrace both the challenges and immense joys of raising children."
-Ryan Fiedler, M.Ed.
"As a single mother, having someone that listens to me and really hears me is so incredibly valuable. I'm grateful to Stefanie for the guidance that helped me navigate my parenting journey so I could be the best parent I can be. She has shown me new ways to better communicate with my young adult daughter. We have the best relationship and I know I couldn't have done it alone. Thank you so much, Stefanie! "
-Abigail M. US Navy Veteran
If Not Now, When?
The time for positive change is always now.
The journey to becoming the parent you aspire to be is a continuous process of growth and evolution. By taking intentional action and staying true to your values, you can create a loving, supportive, and nurturing environment where your children can thrive.
